Q Dear Auntie Pearl, the first few months of this virus I took it very seriously and was in quite hectic isolation.
Luckily my berk was with me.
I thought we would have such a kwaai time, especially in the bedroom, I thought it would give our sex life new woema.
We’ve been together for so many years. I am 42 years young and he’s 39.
We lived together, but not really, before it all happened, and then I asked him to come isolate with me.
I cooked for him, and made it really lekker, but he just wanted to play Playstation.
I want to have sex and he doesn’t.
Do I disgust him? I’m feeling so ugly because of this.
I try to talk about it with him and he gives me excuses.
I think Corona killed our sex life.
A Sweetness, it sounds like you sat with a probbie before lockdown already, and the forced living together only made things worse.
So no, it’s not Rona’s fault that your sex life is bot and your man is not turned on.
This lockdown came to gooi us all for a ses and now even some of the coolest and calmest mense are anxious and worried – and daai’s mos a real sex-drive killer meisie!
How is he in the other relationship departments?
Is he caring and loving? Does he talk about breaking up or moving out?
When you say he makes excuses, what kind of stories does he come up with?
It could be that they are not liegstories and he’s legit stressed out and worried.
You don’t mention whether he has a job or not, only that he likes playing his video games.
Could he be using the games to avoid his problems?
Or perhaps he’s just a lazy slob eating your food and wasting his time playing games, and it might be time to give him a swift kick in the butt out your door, girl.
If you want this relationships to continue and be healthy, you two need to sort this out, because julle are clearly not on the same page.
Have a long, hard look at yourself, this guy and your relationship and what you want from the future, meisie.
It’s never too late for a change.
This virus came to show us that we only have one life and we need to live it!