Q Dear Auntie Pearl, my ex wants me back and says he loves me a lot and doesn’t want to live without me and that he wants my body.
The only problem is that he is on tik, but thinks that I don’t know about it.
I am 15 and he is 19 years old. What do you think?
A Meisie, is djy dan nou versin? How do you even need to ask this question?
Shané, die is mos nou as clear as daylight – you have to get away and stay far away from this junkie. Hoe verder, hoe beter! And the faster, the better!
Nee, sies, man, what is this tikkop nogals talking about wanting your body?
Whether you want to know it or not, you are still a child and should be focussing on your education and your future, not having sex with older people.
He is technically an adult and if he has sex with you - even if consensual - he can be charged with statutory rape, did you know that?
You skeem you know alles about life and love, but really, meisie, you could end up pregnant and alone if you follow this route.
He needs to sort out his drug problem – with his parents/family, not you – and you need to keep away from older guys.
Shané, this is not even worth a long conversation, so let Auntie give it to you straight: Tell this loser to voetsek, delete his number and ignore his calls, unfriend and unfollow him. Bottom line, get him out of your life completely!
It would also be a good idea to tell a trusted adult in your life about this, someone who can help keep an eye on you after you dump him.