Q
Dear Auntie Pearl, I am 36 years old and have a personal problem: The spark has gone out of my marriage.
I love my husband, but I am afraid our marriage might be on the rocks.
I have met someone else, and I am developing feelings for this man.
What should I do?
Please help, Auntie!
A
Haibo, what is it this week with all you girls jolling around? Sies, man!
Stop wasting time on a “relationship” where you don’t belong and go work things out at home.
Auntie is so gatvol of people these days who just want to run away from their problems.
Relationships can be hard work, it’s not all maanskyn en rose the whole time. Grow up, man.
First off, stay away from this other guy you now kamstig have feelings for. He has no business in your life. Next, speak to your man. Does your hubby even know you feel this way?
Stop looking for the easy way out and start fixing your probbies, instead of running away from them.