Q
Dear Auntie Pearl, I’m a 14-year-old girl who has had a boyfriend for a while now.
I really love him. The thing is now one of my friends, she saw him kissing this jint**.
He says it’s not true, Auntie, but I had broken up with him, but it wasn’t even a few days later and we were back together.
Now I think him and this girl have something going on.
I asked her but she says no. I also asked him and he also says no.
Now I don’t know what to do.
From Heartbroken.
A
Listen, koekiemuis, eerste dinge eerste, no 14-year-old talks to Auntie or anyone else for that matter using words like “jint**”.
It’s rude and makes you sound like a low-life yourself.
Now back to your probbie, en luister mooi my skat so first take out daai iPod, iPhone and iPads headphones.
Auntie skeem one of two things is going on your outjie is messing with you, or your tjommie is messing with you.
Trust your gut instinct! Or like my mammie always said, where there’s smoke there’s a fire.
If you’re smelling something fishy, there’s probably an old vrot snoek kop somewhere.
If you feel he’s not being 100 percent honest with you, drop him like a hot potato!
You are only 14 years old, so rather focus on school, sport and friends, there will be lots of time for berks when you’re older.
Don’t complicate your life with these kinds of things life is already difficult enough when you are 14 years old.