Q
Dear Auntie Pearl, my girlfriend is so damn rude.
Everybody hates her, including me.
Nothing I say or do is ever right.
And I’m not the only person who annoys her.
Her boss, her colleagues and people in shops and restaurants… she gets die moer in with all of them, even if they are strangers.
If we are at a restaurant and there’s even the smallest thing that is not perfect, she moans.
We started dating five years ago and back then she had many friends.
But over the years, one by one they’ve dissed her as she’s insulted them constantly.
Some have had screaming fights with her about her onbeskofte maniere and lack of good humour.
I cringe every time she tells her parents to “hou julle bekke”.
Her mother is terrified of her.
A
little piece of me dies inside whenever I hear her throw a tantrum in a public place.
She has had everything in life, but continues to behave like a spoilt brat.
Actually, at the moment we’re not even talking to each other after she accused me of smaaking another girl on a TV show I watch.
When I laughed and said that she mos also likes looking at the guys, she lost her k op and threw a freshly delivered pizza at me.
She says everyone else is overreacting and doesn’t get her, and that everyone else are idiots.
I don’t know if I can stand her any longer.
Should I try and get her better or drop the relationship?