Q Dear Auntie Pearl, the thing is this: my girlfriend has lots of guy friends, actually I think all her friends are guys.
I am 24 and I don’t want to be one of those clingy boyfriends and I’m not the jealous type, but I do think it’s weird. What do you think?
It’s driving me crazy because I’m starting to think she sees them as more than just friends or that she might even be hooking up with one of them.
Our relationship is fine, is it just me being crazy?
And Auntie, please don’t mention my name, I want to stay anonymous.
A Dear Anonymous, kykie hartjie, it sure sounds to Auntie like you are just jealous.
Ja, ja, you said you are not the jealous type but if you are uncomfortable with your girlfriend’s guy friends and if you are worried that she’s cheating on you, then you are mos jealous and feeling insecure.
Auntie’s advice? Rek your bek and talk to her about this.
Daai’s the only way sweetie pie. Otherwise you will drive yourself crazy with worry.
You should feel certain and be assured in your relationship so that no matter how many guy friends your meisie has, she will stay true to you.
And if that’s not the case, then it’s not the guy friends who’s the problem here, is it?