Q
Dear Auntie Pearl, you know what they say about fate and destiny – sometimes we try and control these things.
Anyway, my ou liefde and I – or should I say my eerste liefde – got back together, but now we are apart again.
Thing is, I am not too sure how to feel about this.
He came to me literally begging for another chance.
And now he left without saying anything.
Oh and to top it all, his ex meisie is pregnant.
Dinge raak te veel en soms dink ek dat die Here my iemand sal stuur.
But to be hurt that much by men is a disgrace.
I just feel that there are a lot of things unsaid between us but there is no way I can reach him.
Hy het alle kontak verbreek met my en dan voel hy nie eens skuldig nie.
Miskien moet ek net weer hoor dat alles vir ’n goeie rede gebeur.
Regards
Broken Hearted Girl.
A
Haai jinne tog Broken Hearted Girl, not only does Auntie now have that Beyoncé tune stuck in Auntie’s head, but Auntie’s heart is also breaking for you.
So much sadness, so much raw pain in your hartjie, meisiekind.
Hayibo, that’s no way to bring in the festive season – Auntie thinks it’s time for you to shape up and ship this ou out of your life.
Summer is here, Krismis is om die draai, then it’s lekker nuwe jaar and before you know it you have a whole new 2019 to look forward to.
So this pity party ends here girl!
And what you are saying is true, everything does happen for a reason.
And there is a reason you’re not with your “ou liefde” anymore, there’s a reason he’s left you after begging to get you back, and there’s a reason why he’s not in your life at the moment.
It was a lesson and the conclusion of the lesson is this: there are bigger and better things out there waiting for you.
Dink net, you could have been sitting with an immature cheating berk, or you could have been his ex-girlfriend who’s oppie paal!
Dealing with an unwanted pregnancy without having a committed partner, along with the financial, emotional and bodily strain that goes with it is no walk in the park.
Is this what you want for yourself meisie? No.
So pick yourself up, dust yourself off and forget about this outjie that is clearly just being morsig with women.
Being desperate to find “the one” is also no way to live as it sends out the wrong kinds of vibes girl, and before you know it you’re dating another loser.
Be thankful that he’s out of your life, and start singing a different Beyoncé tune.