Q
Dear Auntie Pearl, I am 18 years old and really embarrassed to still be a virgin.
All my friends have done it, but not me.
I don’t really have anyone to do it with and don’t just wanna do it with anyone.
From Koekie.
A Koekie, you listen to Auntie and you listen good: You should never feel under pressure to have sex.
And being a virgin, whatever your age, is nothing to be embarrassed about.
It’s not just something to get rid of like some sweater in the back of your closet you don’t smaak anymore.
So what if all your tjommies have had sex, you will know when you are ready, and when you have the right person, and then you can do it. And remember, no glove no love.
Safe sex is the only kind of sex you can have, so always use a condom.