Q
Dear Auntie Pearl, I am caught in the middle of two relationships.
You see, I had a boyfriend and we broke up when he cheated on me.
Since then I have started dating another guy.
But now the first berk still sees me often and he complains about his new girl a lot and then we hook up.
Now I am somehow in two relationships. What should I do?
From Princess
A
Goodness Princess, this sounds like a royal gemors if you ask Auntie!
What do you mean “what should I do”? It’s not a difficult decision: Stop jolling!
Even though you two cheaters probably deserve each other, this behaviour is vieslik.
Let’s start with your ex. He jolled around while you were together, and now he’s doing it again with his new girl.
If you can’t see that this guy is trouble, then there is very little hope for you.
Maak oop jou oë: This guy is a gemors and you should not have him in your life.
Never mind that it’s swak to cheat on his girl, who knows how many other girls he’s jumped into bed with; and he could be vol vuilsiektes! Sies.
Don’t think you are off the hook. You are doing exactly what he did to you – cheating.
So don’t come here with your high-handed attitude. Shame on you.
The bottom line is, if you two were still together he could come to you and complain about whomever he wants and you two could make out as much as you want.
But your relationship is over and you are both bymekaar with other people, so stay out of each other’s lives!
You need to erase this joller from your life: no contact, no talking and definitely no sex.
Sommer delete him from your phone right now; and then you delete him from your life